The Patience Room

Hello everyone. Yea, it's been a while. I am writing a brief review today on some fertility supplements. Some we have used and some from my friends. Each product had different results. First product was Manix herbal capsules. The doctor prescribed for us to take for 3 months. We had a count of 13 million and motility of  10%. Dosage was 1 tablet in the morning and evening consecutively. It was also to betaken with milk. I think that was one thing we didn't like about the drug because we always had to have milk in  the house regularly. After three months we had a count of over 100 million but motility and viability barely improved. The motility improved from 10% to 30% and doctor recommended we move to Motility Boost from Fairhaven Health products. Motility Boost was used and we moved from 30% to 45% in 2 months. Point of note was also that we both treated infection before he commenced with motility boost. We continued with that and added Addyzoa to it. Addyzoa is made by

Hello everyone, its a beautiful May. We have been getting a lot of rain⌣.Better than the snow right lol. Today i would be sharing something  i picked from the bible to encourage us.It is taken from the book of Colossians 1: 15-23.I also mixed it up with some other texts from the bible. May the good Lord strengthen us as we read. The holy book in Genesis says' let us make man in our image after our likeness'. This was from the very beginning before sin or any ugly thing happened. When man fell, we lost our authority but God in his compassion and mercy sacrificed Jesus. When Jesus died, we could come boldly before God through Jesus because he is our righteousness. Now you ask how? Christ is the exact likeness the unseen God and We( Patience room) are the exact likeness of God and Jesus Christ. Now, likeness is the state of being like/alike, similar,resemblance. Therefore, i look like and resemble God/ Jesus Christ in all things. God also breathed into us so we are his carbon

Growing up, i used to think once a lady had sex she becomes pregnant. I also used to think the only way to be pregnant was through intercourse😞. My thoughts continued that if a man kept himself, he would only need to 'fire' once and its a goal. Haa!, was i disappointed. However, i could not be bothered about what ovulation, follicle phase, luteal phase and all other terms was. Periods came like clockwork so i figured that qualifies me as being fertile. Getting older, i began to wonder why a 'virgin' would have to wait for a good number of year before she can miraculously conceive. I began  to wonder why someone who has undergone several uterine evacuations would at the snap of her eyelids conceive again and again. I began to wonder why males who have been sowing the wild oat freely and regularly find it easy to hit the goal post more than their chaste comparison. I discovered a man could shoot total blanks and a woman could have all he signs for the precious O

Hiiiiiii, Happy holidays.I am sure we all enjoyed he long break. I just want to ask if you have seen a doctor concerning conception? Silence is never the answers neither is not taking action. Man or woman, please grab the bull by the horns and see a Gynecologist, Urologist and any other specialist needed for your case. When a couple is trying to conceive, both should be open minded. There is no need to cast stones. It could be a his and her problem or a his /her problem. The fact that you impregnated a woman years back does not exonerate you or as a woman the fact that you could 'catch' pregnancy fast a while back does not exonerate you.Both should be available and willing to carry out all tests where applicable and be supportive. Please no stone throwing 😁. Sometimes, a little counselling, drugs, diet, lifestyle adjustment advice from the doctor might just be what you need. In cases where the underlying issues are complex, it helps that you know about it and start wo

When the bible talks about guarding your heart with all diligence (Prov 4:23), i never really took it seriously until i started TTC. Now those who are familiar with this know we go through all kinds of emotions when friends/ close relations birth their kids, some are already pregnant before the wedding and you are 4 years or more down the line after marriage, you hear someone gets rid of a pregnancy she does not want. Yea, you know that feeling right. Lol Today, I want to draw some examples from the bible to show we need to keep our emotions in check while we wait. Reason being i got so worried one day and was really thinking about a whole lot of negative things and God reminded me of Matt.6:25 so whenever i go south i try to remember that scripture. Firstly, we would look at Sarah and Abraham in Gen.16. Sarah decided her husband should bed her maid. Sarah was desperate and did not think through (MPOV). I guess she must have been thinking who would inherit all they had worked for.

Infertility has been define as the inability to conceive as a couple after regular unprotected sex or the inability to biologically contribute to the art/ science of conception. The World Health Organisation statistics says that about 15% of women worldwide suffer from infertility but i want to believe they are more than that. In Africa and particularly Nigeria where i come from, nobody really likes to speak about it. Individuals who go through infertility only come to speak about it when they have overcome the challenges of infertility. The subject of adoption, fertility treatment, Artificial Reproductive technology are all done hush hush. it is considered a shame for 2 people to get married and overtime not have kid.Friends, extended relations,family and neighbors who have no business in your struggles butt in. Most times they have no good advice or contributions to offer. They just keep tabs with questions like ' You belle still flat', 'you still dey do sisi', '